A gentle sense of humor will be alert to detect anything that savors of a pious 'act' on the part of the penitent.
Thomas MertonO love-why can't you leave me alone? Which is a rhetorical question meaning: for heaven's sake, don't.
Thomas MertonDetachment from things does not mean setting up a contradiction between 'things' and 'God' as if God were another thing and as if creatures were His rivals. We do not detach ourselves from things in order to attach ourselves to God, but rather we become detached from ourselves in order to see and use all things in and for God.
Thomas MertonSilence has many dimensions. It can be a regression and an escape, a loss of self, or it can be presence, awareness, unification, self-discovery. Negative silence blurs and confuses our identity, and we lapse into daydreams or diffuse anxieties. Positive silence pulls us together and makes us realize who we are, who we might be, and the distance between these two.
Thomas Merton