It is a general rule of human nature that people despise those who treat them well, and look up to those who make no concessions.
ThucydidesFor so remarkably perverse is the nature of man that he despises whoever courts him, and admires whoever will not bend before him.
ThucydidesSelf-control is the chief element in self-respect, and respect of self, in turn, is the chief element in courage.
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