If you want to, you can share my teaching refrain: I can't want you to succeed more than you do.
Tim GunnI have heard women complain about men holding doors for them,, as if it is inherently offensive and implies that they are weak. ... I would hold a door for anyone. ... It has to do with noticing our fellow human beings and saying, "I recognize that you're on this planet, and I don't want a door hitting you in the face.
Tim Gunn