I will say that the high road can get so high that you can get a nose bleed, in which case you have to get off the high road.
Tim GunnI have heard women complain about men holding doors for them,, as if it is inherently offensive and implies that they are weak. ... I would hold a door for anyone. ... It has to do with noticing our fellow human beings and saying, "I recognize that you're on this planet, and I don't want a door hitting you in the face.
Tim Gunn