If you're avoiding sin and living morally so that God will have to bless you and save you, then you may be looking to Jesus as a teacher, model, and helper, but ironically you are avoiding him as Savior. You are trusting in your own goodness rather than in Jesus for your standing with God.
Timothy KellerWhen pain and suffering come upon us, we finally see not only that we are not in control of our lives but that we never were.
Timothy Keller