To be a Christian is a standing, a legal position. It means to be a child of God. You are or you are not, there is no try.
Christmas is an invitation by God to say: Look what I've done to come near to you. Now draw near to me...I want to be a friend.
We are saved by a man who died loving his enemies.
I am so bad that He had to die. I am so loved that He was glad to die.
Because we put ourselves in God’s place, He put Himself in our place.
When you say, "Come in Jesus as my caregiver, stay out as my Lord," he can't. He's both.