Only if you first seek inner forgiveness will your confrontation be temperate, wise, and gracious. Only when you have lost the need to see the other person hurt will you have any chance of actually bringing about change, reconciliation, and healing. You have to submit to the costly suffering and death of forgiveness if there is going to be any resurrection.
Timothy KellerWithout the gospel we hate ourselves instead of our sin. Without the gospel weโre motivated through all sorts of awful fear and pride to change and it doesnโt really change our hearts; it just restrains our hearts.
Timothy KellerDisordered love always leads to misery and breakdown. The only way to 'reorder' our loves is to love God supremely.
Timothy KellerThe resurrection makes Christianity the most irritating religion on the face of the earth.
Timothy Keller