If you're a creative person, what inspires you is always changing; it's always shifting.
I listen to a lot of twerk anthems.
One tip is to try and give your hair some time to relax. Don't over wash or over dry it.
My routine actually stays pretty simple and consistent. Every morning I use the X-Out Wash-In Treatment with warm water in the shower. I towel dry my face, apply a moisturizer-sunscreen, and go!
I'm the kind of person who doesn't wait for opportunities to fall from the sky.
Like anything, you just need to stay true to who you are and hope that social constructs don't get in the way of accomplishing your goals.