One tip is to try and give your hair some time to relax. Don't over wash or over dry it.
Like anything, you just need to stay true to who you are and hope that social constructs don't get in the way of accomplishing your goals.
I've learned to love my brown eyes.
I want people to know that I'm a force to be reckoned with.
I actually do a lot of Pilates and try to hike every day that I'm home. Also, I dance SO much in my shows and at rehearsals!
I'm the kind of person who doesn't wait for opportunities to fall from the sky.