Memory is funny. Once you hit a vein the problem is not how to remember but how to control the flow.
Tobias WolffWork for most people is really very social, and the actual thinking is often done in community.
Tobias WolffOur memories tell us who we are and they cannot be achieved through committee work, by consulting other people about what happened. That doesn't mean that at all times memories are telling us the absolute truth, but that the main source of who we are is that memory, flawed or not.
Tobias Wolff