I think the voice can carry a story.
I'm suspicious of epiphanies, because they so rarely last.
Susan Rebecca White has a keen sense for how her characters talk and think. An impressive debut.
I think the second, or outsider's, perspective can come as you layer a story. It's as though you've grabbed a secondary character and asked them, "What do you make of this guy?" and the hope is that the answer surprises you as the writer.
I'm always relearning things I thought I'd learned for good a while back.
I believe that we can access stories, and voices from those around us, more easily often than from our own imperfect memories.