I tend to agree that celibacy for a time is worth considering, for sex is dirty if all it means is winning a man, conquering a woman, beating someone out of something, abusing each other's dignity in order to prove that I am a man, I am a woman.
Toni Cade BambaraWriting is a legitimate way, an important way, to participate in the empowerment of the community that names me.
Toni Cade Bambara