True the Black woman did the housework, the drudgery; true, she reared the children, often alone, but she did all of that while occupying a place on the job market, a place her mate could not get or which his pride would not let him accept.And she had nothing to fall back on: not maleness, not whiteness, not ladyhood, not anything. And out of the profound desolation of her reality she may very well have invented herself.
Toni MorrisonListen up. Let me tell you something. A man ainโt a goddamn ax. Chopping, hacking, busting every goddamn minute of the day. Things get to him. Things he canโt chop down because theyโre inside.
Toni Morrison