She had been looking all along for a friend, and it took her a while to discover that a lover was not a comrade and could never be - for a woman. And that no one would ever be that version of herself which she sought to reach out to and touch with an ungloved hand. There was only her own mood and whim, and if that was all there was, she decided to turn the naked hand toward it, discover it and let others become as intimate with their own selves as she was.
Toni MorrisonThere is a certain kind of peace that is not merely the absence of war. It is larger than that. The peace I am thinking of is not at the mercy of history's rule, nor is it a passive surrender to the status quo. The peace I am thinking of is the dance of an open mind when it engages another equally open one -- an activity that occurs most naturally, most often in the reading/writing world we live in. Accessible as it is, this particular kind of peace warrants vigilance.
Toni MorrisonI think some aspects of writing can be taught. Obviously, you can't teach vision or talent. But you can help with comfort.
Toni MorrisonWhen you know your name, you should hang on to it, for unless it is noted down and remembered, it will die when you do.
Toni MorrisonLanguage alone protects us from the scariness of things with no names. Language alone is meditation.
Toni MorrisonI always start out with an idea, even a boring idea, that becomes a question I don't have answers to.
Toni MorrisonHere I am not the one to throw out. No one steals my warmth and shoes because I am small. No one handles my backside. No one whinnies like sheep or goat because I drop in fear and weakness. No one screams at the sight of me. No one watches my body for how it is unseemly. With you my body is pleasure is safe is belonging. I can never not have you have me.
Toni Morrison