Sex is difficult to write about because it's just not sexy enough. The only way to write about it is not to write much. Let the reader bring his own sexuality into the text. A writer I usually admire has written about sex in the most off-putting way. There is just too much information.
Toni MorrisonEverything I've ever done, in the writing world, has been to expand articulation, rather than to close it.
Toni Morrison