Nothing is more deflating to morale than to have a poor outcome pinned on someone who doesn't deserve it. It lacks integrity and overvalues the outcome at the expense of the people as well as the process.

And as a football coach in the National Football League, I know for sure that it's going to end someday.

We believed it was not our formations that made us good, but rather how we played.

But there's no substitute for a full-time dad. Dads who are fully engaged with their kids overwhelmingly tend to produce children who believe in themselves and live full lives.

Our goal was to win, to win a Super Bowl, but also to win in the right way, to be role models to our community, to represent Indianapolis, the state of Indiana and the National Football League.

It's easy to lose sight of the ultimate goal when you're in the trenches.

The further I get away from coaching, the more I know I made the right decision. You almost forget how wonderful family life is.