One of the major failures of the church is not a focus on building disciples but a focus on building members.
Tony EvansThe bottom line is pray. If youโre tired, sick, emotionally overwhelmedโpray. If youโre on cloud nine and life seems perfectโpray. If you lack directionโpray. If you doubt that prayer makes any differenceโpray. If the circumstances of your life are out of your controlโpray. If the circumstances of your life seem well within youโre your controlโpray even harder. Whatever you doโpray.
Tony EvansThe first thing you do is sit down with your wife and say something like this, Honey, I've made a terrible mistake. I've given you my role. I gave up leading this family. ... I'm not suggesting that you ask for your role back, I'm urging you to take it back ... Be sensitive. Listen. Treat the lady gently and lovingly. But lead!
Tony EvansJesus didn't wait until we got better to die for us. He died when we were in our most unlovely state. The person who doesn't deserve love actually needs love more, not less. If you know someone unworthy of love, that's great! You now have a chance to emulate Christ, because the essence of His love is unconditional.
Tony Evans