I believe you should seek to understand and then be understood.
The best way to dream is with your eyes open and feet moving
You attract what you are, not what you want. So if you want it then reflect it!
Life is too precious to waste it with the wrong person. You're better off alone until the right one comes along.
If you can't do anything about it then let it go. Don't be a prisoner to things you can't change.
When you truly love yourself, you don't have enemies. They may hate you but you're too big to hate them back.