If it would destroy [a 12-year-old boy] to be called a girl, what are we then teaching him about girls?

The Centers for Disease Control says that men's violence against women is at epidemic proportions.

Now I also want to say, without a doubt, there are some wonderful, wonderful, absolutely wonderful things about being a man. But at the same time, there's some stuff that's just straight up twisted, and we really need to begin to challenge, look at it and really get in the process of deconstructing, redefining, what we come to know as manhood.

My liberation as a man is tied to your liberation as a woman.

If it would destroy [a 12-year-old boy] to be called a girl, what are we then teaching him about girls?