Just as love blinds us to imperfections in others, it magnifies those we see in ourselves. But if this is true, then the opposite must also be the case. We can take comfort in the fact that our faults will be invisible to those who love us. The success or failure of any relationship depends not just on how we feel about each other, but on how we make each other feel about ourselves.
Tonya HurleyIf you want sympathy, look for a friend, but if you want honesty, an enemy might be the best friend you ever had.
Tonya HurleyAnd though the symptons of lovesickness may be many, they all share a single cause and single cure: you.
Tonya HurleyYou can't have it both ways. Love is too powerful to hide for very long. Deny it and suffer the consequences. Acknowledge it and suffer the consequences. Revealing it can either be shameful or it can be liberating. It is for others to decide which it will be.
Tonya Hurley