All of us, consciously or unconsciously, set out to have the best possible love life. Valentine's Day simply shines a light on the degree to which that didn't - or hasn't yet - materialized.

Loving myself exactly where I am is the only way to get where I'm going

Lots of people feel more alive when theyre riding a roller-coaster relationship. But while this might be fun for a while, it cant possibly last.

I think of 'crazy' as what happens when we love the other person more than we love ourselves.

I think of masculine and feminine energy like two sides to a battery. Theres a plus side and a minus side, and in order to make something turn on, you need to have opposites touching. Its the same in relationships.

Women with low self-esteem love bad boys. Women who have work to do love bad boys. Women who love themselves love good men.

Women blame men for their own singlehood.