A marriage can go wrong at any time.
I hate trends, but I love fashion.
I literally change on the shop floor. I just stand there in my knickers sometimes.
Careers, children and homemaking all come above preserving your appearance. Self-preservation is at the bottom of the scale.
If you want to make the best of yourself you don't necessarily need to diet - you need to wear the right stuff.
As for the people who say tackling problems through clothes is superficial, I think they say that because they have their own issues about self worth.