Complaining is another way of saying to others, YOU SOLVE THE PROBLEM.
If being me offends you, maybe I'm not the problem.
Be different, be altruistic. Be strange, work for others in response to their harm. Raise eyebrows, be generous without agenda.
Find yourself. Be with yourself. Fail and then achieve.
We must be open to our mistakes and grow. Growth isn't based on being perfect, but moving toward the best we can be by being honest.
Not everyone can see things the way you see it, so let go. You can't see everything the way they see it either, so let go again.