You are not obligated to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and find a way to conquer the odds, to be stronger or transform yourself into some better version of yourself. The pain you are feeling (whatever the degree) may be a reminder that things are not as they should be.
Tullian TchividjianGrace loves without reference to what may or may not happen-which is precisely why such incredible things do happen!
Tullian TchividjianWhen we reduce the notion of โcallingโ to work inside the church, we fail to equip our people to apply their Christian faith to everything they do, everywhere they are.
Tullian TchividjianThe biggest lie about grace that Satan wants the church to buy is the idea that itโs dangerous and therefore needs to be kept in check.
Tullian TchividjianThe gospel frees you from the pressure of having to fix people: your worth is located in Christ, not in their transformation.
Tullian TchividjianGod reminds us again and again that things between He and us are forever fixed. They are the rendezvous points where God declares to us concretely that the debt has been paid, the ledger put away, and that everything we need, in Christ we already possess. This re-convincing produces humility, because we realize that our needs are fulfilled. We donโt have to worry about ourselves anymore. This in turn frees us to stop looking out for what we think we need and liberates us to love our neighbor by looking out for what they need.
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