Urban women don't breed in their twenties. Shortly after, I became a mother too, which is why I was probably so child friendly.

But I think it is always difficult to have high expectations of yourself or anyone else.

We're in an environment where everyone gets compartmentalized very quickly.

I guess I'm lucky to have been blindsided. I'm lucky to have gotten into fistfights, in a way. I'm lucky I learned how to stop them.

I think everybody has a hard time connecting, but as you get older and you want more and you expect more and you know more, it's just different. If you start wanting too much from it without it naturally unfolding, then that makes it bad. If you start not wanting anything, then you are not serious. I mean it's just this conundrum of issues.

I grew up in a mostly Buddhist environment.

And I haven't read a lot of blogs but if someone writes about what they care about I'm sure it's interesting.