There has to be room for people to make mistakes and lead their own lives.

I have the rare privilege of talking to my dad every night at 10 p.m. and hearing about what he did that day.

I think my dad is this great, wonderful... man with a lot of integrity, who is fighting for things he believes in and is serious in what he wants to see happen and serious in helping people.

It wasnt until two or three years ago that I actually learned that in the end he actually did kill someone. But that was a choice that he faced: to kill or be killed.

My father loves his country and is ready to lead it. In my fathers gut: integrity.

There has to be room for people to make mistakes and lead their own lives.

It was definitely a part of our life. I mean, my mom had both her brothers and her fiancee in Vietnam at the same time, so it wasn't just my dad's story, it was my mom's story too. And we definitely grew up listening to the stories.