I have several friends that have outlasted both of my marriages that are raising wonderful children together that have been together in gay unions for over 25 years. So they're doing a better job than I am!

I think there's a time to work, and everyone has to kind of adjust. And then there's a time to relax, and be the mom or take the kids on vacation when you need to wind down. So it's a matter of planning, and being able to map out your year or your week or let's start with the day. It is just being multi-tasking and being available.

And at 19, you think you rule the world, and you can control things. And a lot of times, you don't.

I'm not shooting every day of the week, which allows me to fly home to be with my kids for the weekends. That's how I keep it moving.

Success is the sweetest revenge.

I go out and salsa with friends, especially in the summertime. Now that's incredible cardio!

Sometimes the snow comes down in June, sometimes the sun goes around the moon.