Don't lie to your partner. Ultimately the expression on your face gives you away, and they feel betrayed by the lie. If this is the person you're going to be with - forever and ever, for better or worse - they will love you for all of your good and all of your bad. They'll love you for you. So open communication is key. I have no secrets and no skeletons in my closet with my husband, and I love that. I feel comfortable and at ease with myself when I'm around him. I love the woman that I've become with him.
Vanessa LacheyI didn't grow up with a mother, so I don't have that resource to rely on and ask a million questions.
Vanessa LacheyI am an Air Force brat - that's the terminology they use for military kids who are traveling constantly.
Vanessa Lachey