When I was deciding to fight, the thought of winning or losing didn't bother me.
If I am cheated or betrayed, I will react.
If the Sri Lankan government resorts to state oppression against the Tamils and Muslims, then we will fight.
If somebody trusts me, then I will reciprocate.
People cannot give up their cause, their rights, for fear of defeat.
What you have to assess is whether you have the will to fight.