Maybe I was afraid to trust him with something so personal as my devotion.

Tris: Wait. So you have no idea what my aptitude is? Tori: Yes and No. My conclusion is that you display equal aptitude for Abnegation, Dauntless and Erudite. People who get this kind of result are..are called...Divergent.

If we stay together, I'll have to forgive you over and over again, and if you're still in this, you'll have to forgive me over and over again too. So forgiveness isn't the point. What I really should have been trying to figure out is whether we were still good for each other or not

Resisting is worth doing.

No need to continually insist upon your unshakable masculinity.

Some people will always fear change. But we can't indulge them.

Guilt [is] a tool, rather than a weapon against the self.