There's really no way to be perfect. Perfectionism is a silly trait to have, so in a lot of ways that inspired the world of 'Divergent,' in which everyone is striving toward that ideal and falling short of it.

i like to think that im helping them by hating them

Do remember, though, that sometimes the people you oppress become mightier than you would like.

I was still afraid of him, I knew, but in a different way - I was no longer a child, afraid of the threat my terrifying father posed to my safety. I was a man, afraid of the threat he posed to my character, to my future, to my identity.

It is a gift. You cannot earn it, or it ceases to be a gift.

It's strange to see people you don't know well in the morning, with sleepy eyes and pillow creases in their cheeks

Lies require commitment.