There are three needs of the griever: To find the words for the loss, to say the words aloud and to know that the words have been heard.
Victoria AlexanderWhen a man finds the one woman who is right, it scarcely matters what else is wrong.
Victoria AlexanderAs I have yet to meet a gentleman I wished to spend the rest of my days with, I would say the failure was on their part rather than mine.
Victoria AlexanderIn the face of events that threaten to overwhelm our lives, storytelling gives us a way of reclaiming ourselves and reaffirming our connections with other people-those who listen to our stories and, by doing so, bear witness with us.
Victoria AlexanderI say seduce her, seduce her tonight. Break the door down if you have to. Tell her all those things you said to me about her. You will love her more tomorrow than today and how you want to die with her hand in yours–which is an excellent line, by the way, that I fully intend to borrow when the time comes.
Victoria Alexander