[I]t is the maxim of the saints that when a matter has been decided in the presence of God after many prayers and the seeking of advice, we must reject and consider as a temptation whatever is suggested to the contrary.

You can give me no greater consolation nor render greater service to your neighbor than to place yourself in a condition to serve him for a long time

You should not open your mouth except to express gratitude for benefits you have received, and never to mention your discontent.

. . . [T]hose persons who console you today may humiliate you tomorrow.

Humility is nothing but truth, and pride is nothing but lying.

It seems to me that the best way will be the one that is most gentle and forbearing, which is more in conformity with the Spirit of Our Lord and more apt to win hearts.

If you think something should be done, take the trouble to write to me about it, and together we will decide the time and manner of doing it.