[E]xcess in the practice of virtue is no less imperfect than the lack of it.

In this way, through experience they will be formed adequately, will be encouraged, and will be capable of rendering service to God.

God often delays the conclusion of a holy endeavor so that those involved in it might merit its grace by the length of the work, their patience, and their prayers. This is why I beg you not to grow weary in yours. Although He may delay, He will reveal that it is pleasing to Him, if it is done, nevertheless, in a spirit of resignation regarding the outcome.

Experience has shown us that virtue puts down only shallow roots in those who are there for just a short time

Be acted upon rather than active. In this way, God will do through you alone what all men put together could not do without Him.

I am determined, even if they throw mud in my face, never to show any resentment, nor break with them, nor deviate from the esteem and honor I owe them in the sight of God. If they forget themselves and say or do something offensive against your little bark, even if it is done purposely to make it sink, bear with it for the love of God, who will save you from shipwreck and calm the storm. Do not complain or even say a single work about it. In spite of everything, continue to compliment them when you meet, as if nothing were amiss.

It will be easier for you to bring him around to where you want him more by gentleness and patience than by being too uncompromising.