It is fatal to be a man or woman pure and simple: one must be a woman manly, or a man womanly.
Virginia WoolfShe felt drawing further from her and further from her an Archduke, (she did not mind that) a fortune, (she did not mind that) the safety and circumstance of married life, (she did not mind that) but life she heard going from her, and a lover.
Virginia Woolf