Most of a modest woman's life was spent, after all, in denying what, in one day at least of every year, was made obvious.
Virginia WoolfTo be silent; to be alone. All the being and the doing, expansive, glittering, vocal, evaporated; and one shrunk, with a sense of solemnity, to being oneself, a wedge-shaped core of darkness, something invisible to others.
Virginia Woolf