There is no doubt in my mind, that I have found out how to begin (at 40) to say something in my own voice.
Virginia WoolfBut when we sit together, close,โ said Bernard, โwe melt into each other with phrases. We are edged with mist. We make an unsubstantial territory.
Virginia WoolfIf one is to deal with people on a large scale and say what one thinks, how can one avoid melancholy? I donโt admit to being hopeless, though: only the spectacle is a profoundly strange one; and as the current answers donโt do, one has to grope for a new one, and the process of discarding the old, when one is by no means certain what to put in their place, is a sad one.
Virginia Woolf