I will always be referred to as a theorist, but I was only a fellow traveller with a degree.

I'm reminded of a female patient who was particularly aroused by the shape of her husband's shoulder. And this hint of perversion should ideally remain a secret for both partners.

It's very important to approach pedophiles and pedosexuals and offer them therapy. It's been my experience that you can reach your objective with what I would call kind-hearted, informed and enlightened patients - in the sense that they don't lose their desire, but that they no longer have physical contact with children. That would be the goal.

Key feature of sexual revolution is the large-scale publication and commercialization of details that were once secret. Sexuality has been trivialized. The interesting thing about this is that exaggerated portrayals apparently destroy desire more effectively than any repression.

The traits of our sexual culture are still speechlessness, loneliness, violence and not enough desire and love.

Internet sexuality shows that we're becoming more and more self-involved. I'm talking about self-sex.

When it comes to sexuality, people like to tell lies. It's only when it comes to money that they lie more.