You can make your life whatever you want it to be
In some areas I am more noted for reading then I am for cookies!
Remember that everything starts with a thought and thoughts produce in kind.
It's vital to be growing through your life rather than going through your life. The object is not to change other people or situations; it's to do the inner work they stimulate.
I lost a company. So what? It's just stuff. Can't take it with you.
You may not be responsible for getting knocked down. But you're certainly responsible for getting back up.