Men rarely worry about using or being used because all relationships work that way. A man perceives himself as owning and being owned by a woman. Use is a dirty word only when theres an imbalance in the relationship.

My wife's income allowed me to do what I really loved. I realized that women's liberation is men's liberation, too.

The only men who aren't in fear of women's reactions are usually men who aren't born or who are dead.

Companies like I.B.M. have offered women scholarships to study engineering for years, and women engineers routinely get higher starting salaries than men.

And we reduce almost all male-female problems by working on both the female and the male. And that usually means having both sexes take responsibility.

Men are fair, and they have learned not to personalize anger - they can disagree with you and argue to the bone, but afterward they still consider you a nice person with whom the underlying human relationship need not be altered.

Boys with a failure to launch are invisible to most girls. With poor social skills, the boys feel anger at their fear of being rejected and self-loathing at their inability to compete.