Asking the legal system to resolve divorce is like asking a boxing coach to be our marriage counselor.

Men are often a lot less vindictive than women are, because we are rejected constantly every day.

Companies like I.B.M. have offered women scholarships to study engineering for years, and women engineers routinely get higher starting salaries than men.

And we reduce almost all male-female problems by working on both the female and the male. And that usually means having both sexes take responsibility.

In the past quarter century, we exposed biases against other races and called it racism, and we exposed biases against women and called it sexism. Biases against men we call humor.

In fact, the socialization gives us the tools to fill our evolutionary roles. They are our building blocks.

In America and in most of the industrialized world, men are coming to be thought of by feminists in very much the same way that Jews were thought of by early Nazis. The comparison is overwhelmingly scary.