Men will not change as long as women 'marry up.' Men won't change until we have a perspective on how powerless power makes us. A woman cannot help a man change until she has a perspective on how powerless power makes men.

Falling in love is biologically natural; sustaining love is biologically un-natural. Sustaining love requires a learned discipline. The discipline of love. The discipline of understanding our partner. (I've never heard someone say I want a divorce - my partner understands me.)

Ive always been motivated to stop people from doing dysfunctional things.

Asking the legal system to resolve divorce is like asking a boxing coach to be our marriage counselor.

And we reduce almost all male-female problems by working on both the female and the male. And that usually means having both sexes take responsibility.

Our main reasons for fearing males having sex with males is that you really had to construct a more powerful social role to keep men in their place than you did to keep women in their place.

The male corporate model is built on a mans greater willingness to be a slave of sorts - especially once he has to provide for children.