You leave old habits behind by starting out with the thought, 'I release the need for this in my life'.
Learn to appreciate what you have and where and who you are.
Beware of the temptation to see yourself as unfairly treated.
Begin with the end in mind. Start with the end outcome and work backwards to make your dream possible.
Be content. Know that whatever comes along, you can handle it and grow from it.
I am a realist. I expect miracles.