In order to forgive, you must have blamed.
Every thought you have affects everything in your body.
All forgiveness is self forgiveness.
Your reputation is in the hands of others. That's what the reputation is. You can't control that. The only thing you can control is your character.
Don't allow the approval and attention of others to destroy you.
When you are saying you want to feel good, what you really are saying is you want to feel God: I want my thoughts to be the same as the source from which I emanated.