All Southern women wished of their menfolk was simply to be 'like Paris handsome and like Hector brave'.
Willa CatherFreedom so often means that one isn't needed anywhere. Here you are an individual, you have a background of your own, you would be missed. But off there in the cities there are thousands of rolling stones like me. We are all alike; we have no ties, we know nobody, we own nothing.
Willa Cather