So many believe that it is love that grows, but it is the knowing that grows and love simply expands to contain it.

I often find that getting head issues out of the way first makes the heart stuff easier to work on later.

I believe that, that Christ became sin for us.

Transformation without work and pain, without suffering, without a sense of loss is just an illusion of true change.

I give you an ability to respond and your response is to be free to love and serve in every situation, and therefore each moment is different and unique and wonderful.

It grants you the power to judge others and feel superior to them. You believe you are living to a higher standard than those you judge. Enforcing rules, especially in more subtle expressions like responsibility and expectation, is a vain attempt to create certainly out of uncertainty. And contrary to what you might think, I have a great fondness for uncertainty. Rules cannot bring freedom; they only have the power to accuse.

Relationships are never about power, and one way to avoid the will to power is to choose to limit oneself - to serve.