Responsibilites and expectations are the basis of guilt and shame and judgement, and they provide the essential framework that promotes performance as the basis for identity and value.

You are a beautiful mess, you are the melody.

This life is only the anteroom of a greater reality to come.

Transformation without work and pain, without suffering, without a sense of loss is just an illusion of true change.

Forgiveness is not about forgetting. It is about letting go of another person's throat.

I wrote a story for my kids. It's fiction. It's not systematic theology. It's not a new book of the Bible. It's flawed, I wrote it. All of that goes into the mix, but I love the controversy. It elevates the conversation.

You are free to love without an agenda