Say what you want without saying it yourself: quote. Very useful, this, sometimes lovely, and versatile, too: big thoughts in small pieces, neatly wrapped and bundled in bulk, in different flavors for different tastes.

Flattery works like a drug.

Quotations cause all kinds of trouble.

Quotologists encounter happy surprises, bright books by faded authors, treasures hidden under dust.

A little flattery, like a warm bath and soft towel, will let you get along with yourself, lie down with yourself, and sleep.

Care for yourself enough to listen carefully to what you say to yourself.

Flattery.... gets its kicks by flirting with insult and ridicule.