The prayer is up to us; the answer is up to God.
Treat the elderly as a nonrenewable resource; they care!
Prayer only works when the channels are open.
Quite honestly, most people are quick to "write someone off." But our God is a God of the second chance. Learn from One who is patient with you, and you'll learn to be patient with others.
Ultimately, all our complaints are directed against God.
Glory in Christ and you can bask in His light forever.