You must act in your friends' interests whether it pleases them or not; the object of love is to serve, not to win.
Woodrow WilsonThe competent leader of men cares little for the niceties of other peoples' characters: he cares much--everything--for the exterior uses to which they may be put.... These are men to be moved. How should he move them? He supplies the power; others simply the materials on which that power operates.
Woodrow Wilson